Paula is coming – The big gigolo interview 2020 at SIXX
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In the big gigolo interview of the series “Paula kommt” by SIXX, the entire topic of “gigolo” is vividly illuminated from different perspectives. The presenter Paula Lambert succeeds in a sensitive way in understanding the point of view of a customer as well as that of a gigolo in a typical booking.
Gigolo customer Susanna meets our gigolo Rick on a classic “sweet date” in a Berlin beer garden. Anyone who knows Paula knows that she is not afraid to publicly proclaim her own point of view. The opinions of 6 other women (so-called “sex experts”) also provide wit and loosening up on the topic that is still generally considered very sensitive.
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Broadcast on TV by Sixx on 09.09.2020 at 22:15
Paula comes: “Prostitution. When we hear this word, most of us naturally think of guys who pay women for sexual services. But more and more women are also buying sex. I have often talked to gigolos about their job, but never with a sex worker and his potential customer – until today!
Today I meet Susanna, a young woman who lives out her sexuality freely. She has been single for five years and spends a lot of time on dating apps. Today she wants to have a new experience. She will meet a gigolo. I want to know more about that.”
Gigolo customer Susanna: “Hi, well, I’m glad?”
Presenter Paula comes: “Hi, Paula.”
Susanna: “Susi.”
Paula: “Hi Susi. Yes, thank you for letting us meet.”
Susi: “Yes, I’m very excited!”
Paula: “Me too. If you roam the world as a young, beautiful woman, you could just go on a dating app and click on someone you want and possibly have the same end result. What is the advantage of a professional connection for you?”
Susi: “Mmh, that it’s a bit clear in advance, ok, what do I get, what’s the offer as if I were to go through a dating app now. It’s basically like this, you buy a pig in a poke and of course you have to find out everything somehow and if it’s a bit like in the catalog, then you know more about what you’re going to choose.”
Paula: “For women, such a gigolo can actually be such a total liberation, because we still suffer from the fact that we are told that we are only allowed to live our sexuality one way or another and that we have to conform to certain conventions and otherwise be the good wife and mother. So in this respect, I’m totally “on fire”. Um, what do you expect from him, that’s your dream for this date, if things go really well?”
Susi: “Um, so first of all, that we have a good time. That they get along so well. There are also men who talk, talk, talk and don’t ask anything once and I hope that it’s a bit of a good balance.”
Paula: “His job is also to make you feel good about yourself. What would be your sexual desire for the situation? The advantage is that you can basically say what you want and he does it because it’s his service. You don’t usually have that. Many women tend to bring a certain service idea into bed and say: the main thing is that he has fun.”
Susi: “No, I think if you pay money for ordering a gigolo, then you can let yourself go a bit. And maybe you also discover another side of yourself that you like and have never seen before.”
Gigolos are male prostitutes, but are often booked only as companions. According to the cliché, especially of older, single career women or frustrated wives. Susanna is neither one nor the other.
Paula: “Are you basically looking for love or for a relationship, partnership?”
Susi: “At the moment, I would say no. At the moment there is no one for whom I would give up the rest.”
Paula: “What’s the rest?”
Susi: “All the other men.”
Paula: “Ah, I see. Were there emotional injuries in the past that you now withdraw and don’t allow intimacy anymore?”
Susi: “In any case, so actually my last boyfriend cheated on me for a certain time, that was very unpleasant and definitely shaped me, but then also opened me up somewhere that I saw, so it doesn’t always have to be a relationship like that, but people or women can also be happy so easily.
Paula: “Susanna is about to have her date with gigolo Rick, whom she was looking for on the Internet through an agency. She is not primarily concerned with sex. Susanna wants to know what a bought date feels like. What parameters did you pay attention to now?”
Susi: “Well, at first I looked a bit like that, that he was visually my case. He’s tall, the age fits, weight – also fits.”
Paula: “97kg, 1.90m, that’s quite a guy!”
Susi: “Yes, and for me I also find it very attractive that he has tattoos and piercings, I like that.”
Paula: “Does it bother you that it’s a job for him?”
Susi: “No, I somehow earn my bread and butter and so does he.”
Paula: “Well, I mean, that’s somehow different when you meet a man who may be looking for love than with a man who is looking for the next month’s rent.”
Susi: “Yes, that’s true, but I think at that moment I just block it out and just have a good time.”
Paula: “Ok, I’ve got the impression of you now, I like you very much. Now I’ll see what I think of Rick and what his motivation is. And I’ll do it separately from you so I don’t fudge into your date, yes?”
Susi: “All right.”
Paula: “And that’s why I would go to meet him now, ok?”
Susi: “Ok, then we’ll see you later.”
Paula: “Good, see you later. I’m curious about Rick, wants to know from him what is true about the clichés around the topic of love for sale from his point of view.”
Paula arrives: “Why do women come to you?”
Gigolo Rick: “I’m there for them, so only for them. That’s how it should be from my point of view, that when I have a question, the man is there for the woman, but that’s often not the case. Many are then alone and I would say businesswomen or women already in quite high social levels, who then have no husband, but just want to treat themselves. So, as I said, just a younger one or then just go on vacation with me or sit in the beer garden and spend a nice time.”
Paula arrives: “Did you have any difficulties at the beginning? So I mean, that’s not so easy. You give something of yourself complete strangers, you experience something very, very intimate together.”
Gigolo Rick: “You experience quite a lot, you get to know quite a lot. It’s sometimes at first maybe – it’s not meant to sound bad or something like that – “disturbing” I’ll say what preferences there really are and what is being taken into, you’re quite open about it.”
Paula arrives: “What, for example?”
Gigolo Rick: “Role-playing games too. Then I get there, then we talk. And who am I and what do I do and chat. And when your introduction starts, I’m just the pool boy who addresses her or stories like that. That you then play scenarios with them that might increase the desire of the ladies.”
Paula arrives: “So there is already such a power imbalance in the game then.”
Gigolo Rick: “Yes, that already exists, it goes quite far.”
Paula arrives: “What wishes do women have?”
Gigolo Rick: “So the spectrum is very wide, I would say, very large.”
Paula arrives: “Sex as desired with a man who does not judge or judge. I’m starting to understand why women use his services.”
Gigolo Interview 2020 – Six women answer the question “Would a gigolo be something for you”?
“I think that’s another social thing, so in my opinion, men are more likely to go to prostitutes than women to gigolos, because that’s also more accepted in our society.”
Nadine Primo (30), blogger, www.nadine-primo.com
“Well, first of all, there are few gigolos as far as I know. And many more prostitutes. Um, secondly, I think men are much more allowed to live their sexuality and also pay for sexuality.”
Mara Stadick (48), sexologigal bodyworker, www.orgasmic-woman.com
“For the fun of it, I could imagine ordering a gigolo. Just for the sake of experience to have done it. and it could be a fun evening.”
Jackson Latza (27), Coach, www.jacksonslife.de
“I can’t imagine going to a sex worker because I think I want to share my sexuality with someone I know personally.”
Vanda Engels (26), music student
“Personally, I think the idea of being penetrated is something where I really need this trust and want to allow it, I don’t want to pay anyone and then go to them and then maybe it doesn’t fit.”
Clara Louise Marie (25), www.claralouisemarie.de
“I would have to feel that he or she is really professional in what she does. In other words, I can put myself at the center with my wishes and needs.”
Brigitte Erhardt (45), blogger, www.mysexsalad.com
Paula arrives: “Do you think women are worth it more or do they appreciate sex with you differently because they give you money for it?”
Gigolo Rick: “I think that sex may be more intense for them or better for them mentally. But that’s not because of me or because they pay for me, but because they just talk to me openly and honestly. And tell me their preferences and they do with me what they want. Everyone would just be more open about it and talk about it more openly in private situations and say hey, I think it’s really nice if you tie me to the St. Andrew’s cross and then play with me with any utensils. So this game of power, closeness and dominance. Yes, why don’t I say that. This woman will have sex in the missionary position for years, not be properly satisfied, either she cheats or he cheats because it never comes to a good sex. And I think that’s what we give then. But not because we are the high-flyers now, but because people simply talk to us honestly and openly from the outset.”
Paula arrives: “Well, I think it’s actually sometimes more difficult in relationships because so many factors are involved. Then you have children and a dog and a house and a company together or what do I know. And then I think it’s difficult to live out the sexual component in such a way that you can really free yourself completely from all the other.
Gigolo Rick: “But I think it’s the men’s fault, not the women. You still offer them too much… But I can also go to my wife and say, hey, are you satisfied? Or do you want or need something? Why don’t men do that?”
Paula arrives: “The cause is a male problem, I think now, so we can’t save female lust by leaving men behind. It can only be done together, so we have to practice talking together.”
Gigolo Rick: “Yes, right, but that’s what I mean. Why doesn’t the man go up to his wife and say, hey, it’s fine for you too?”
Paula arrives: “Because he doesn’t even come up with the idea.”
Gigolo Rick: “Yes, right, I mean he puts it in and comes and that’s where it starts.”
Paula arrives: “Yes, so then let’s say to the men now, go to your wives and ask them and women, go to your husbands and say what you want. Ok, then I’d like to introduce you to your customer for today, yes?”
Gigolo Rick: “Gladly.”
Susanna is certainly waiting for us very excitedly.
Susi: “Hello.”
Gigolo Rick: “Hi.”
Paula arrives: “So I wish you very, very much fun on the date and I’m retiring.”
Susi: “Thank you, ciao.”
Gigolo Rick: “So, pretty warm today.”
Susi: “Yes, very much.”
Gigolo Rick: “Have you done this before, such a meeting?”
Susi: “Um, no, that’s actually the first time, mmh. What else do you do?”
Gigolo Rick: “Otherwise? I do sports, give coaching lessons.”
Susi: “For what? Anything special?”
Gigolo Rick: “Yes, martial arts, self-defense and Crossfit.”
Paula arrives: “So she has a very open body language, I think that’s a very positive sign and he’s professionally interested, as it should be, so my feeling is that it’s going quite well so far.”
Susi: “You have something tattooed here, here on your chest. What does it say?”
Gigolo Rick: “On the chest? Ego sum qui sum.”
Susi: “What does that mean?”
Gigolo Rick: “I am who or what I am. Do you have tattoos too?”
Susi: “Yes, a few smaller ones, but more like one here, one there. What was your first?”
Gigolo Rick: “I had Chinese characters in here.”
Susi: “Ah yes, hmm, that was also for a while. But it probably didn’t say chicken soup or anything.”
Gigolo Rick: “I don’t know, so I hope not.”
Paula arrives: “Of course, he does one thing incredibly right that many, many men do wrong. He asks her questions and he listens to her and as you can see, it works incredibly well. Once I have to interrupt the two of them. Sorry, I don’t want to disturb you at all, but I’ll just sit down now. Of course, I speculated from over there how it would go. And is he a nice guy?”
Susi: “Yes.”
Paula arrives: “And she too?”
Gigolo Rick: “Yes, nice lady, yes.”
Paula arrives: “Well, I’ve been talking to Rick for a long time and if we were friends I’d give you my OK. Also because he had said really, really good things about how he sees women, what he believes, how his work can actually help women, um, and above all how he thinks women should be treated and that’s why I’m quite optimistic now.”
Susi: “I’m happy about that, it gives me a good feeling.”
Gigolo Rick: “And me!”
Paula arrives: “Yes, that sounds to me like I’m just a nuisance anyway and that’s why I wish you a lot of fun, especially you, this is your day. Have a lot of fun together, because that is the most important thing in life. When there are already two of you. Good luck”
Gigolo Rick: “That’s right, thank you, all the best.”
Susi: “Thank you, bye.”
Paula arrives: “Just talking to Rick, Susanna looks pretty happy. Let’s see…”
Paula arrives: “Susanna and her gigolo Rick had a great time with drinks and good conversations. There was no sexual spark between the two that evening.
Gigolo Interview 2020 – Six women answer the question “What is good sex for you”?
“Good sex is consensual, pleasurable, um, and uninhibited as far as interpersonal communication is concerned.”
Vanda Engels (26), music student
“For me, good sex is when I can be who I want to be.”
Mara Stadick (48), sexologigal bodyworker, www.orgasmic-woman.com
“My sex partner should know about female pleasure that it often increases much slower and that if he is hard and feels like it, it doesn’t mean that I am ready to be penetrated. Um, he should also know about female pleasure that the pussy is also differently sensitive and that mine may need something more delicate than what his penis needs. And making love is nicer than having sex somehow and for me there is a difference and that’s why love plays a big role and doesn’t even necessarily have to be a steady partner, but love has to flow for me.”
Clara Louise Marie (25), www.claralouisemarie.de
“For me, good sex is very deep communication, deep engagement with each other. So for me, sex always has to do with love, which doesn’t mean that it always has to be a long-term partner.”
Brigitte Erhardt (45), blogger, www.mysexsalad.com
“There is no one female lust either, every woman defines that differently for herself. And yes, what should he know about it. He should rather be willing to know everything about it. Yes. That’s how I would rather record it.”
Nadine Primo (30), blogger, www.nadine-primo.com
“Good sex is when both want the same thing. That they can communicate with each other – verbally or otherwise – and then connect with each other and then create together exactly what they want to create. Then, when you discover yourself, dare to openly communicate that to the person you trust. And try to encourage them to do the same. And at the same time, be fully mindful and patient with each other.”
Jackson Latza (27), coach, www.jacksonslife.de
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