Interview with David – The everyday life of a male escort

Open, honest and empathetic: David talks about his profession as a gigolo for demanding women

David is active as a professional companion on Callboy-Verzeichnis.com and Callboyz.net . In this interview, he gives rare insights into his work as a gigolo. He reports on personal experiences, clears up common prejudices and explains why emotional intelligence and tact are often more decisive than external appearance.

What do many people mistakenly think about gigolos?

Interviewer: What is the most common cliché?
It is often assumed that it is exclusively about sex. In truth, many customers are looking for closeness, attention and real connection above all. The women I work with are usually stylish and stand firmly in life – far from the common image.

What is the significance of psychological sensitivity in your profession?

Interviewer: How important is empathy?
It is absolutely central. You have to quickly recognize how the woman feels and what she needs – emotionally and physically. Listening and reading between the lines is a core competence.

Have you ever declined a request?

Interviewer: Have you ever canceled?
Yes, certainly – but never because of the looks. I reject requests if certain personal boundaries are affected, such as the topic of heavy smoking.

How open are you about your job in your private life?

Interviewer: Do friends and family know about it?
I’m very transparent. My close environment knows about it and treats it respectfully. I don’t hide my profession – not even my real name.

Do you have returning customers?

Interviewer: Are there regular customers?
Yes, some book regularly. This creates familiarity, which makes both the conversation and the time together more relaxed.

What exactly do your customers book?

Interviewer: Are there fixed wishes or is it rather open?
In most cases, they book my time. What emerges from this is very individual. It usually develops spontaneously and is based on mutual sympathy.

Have you already had unusual requests?

Interviewer: How do you deal with special preferences?
Fetishes and role-playing occur. I discuss such wishes in detail in advance so that both sides know what to expect.

How does the first conversation with a new customer work?

Interviewer: How do women react when they book for the first time?
Many are insecure or nervous – which is completely understandable. I take my time to clarify everything calmly by phone or e-mail before a meeting takes place.

What advice do you have for women who are not yet sure?

Interviewer: How do you overcome the first hurdle?
Openness is crucial. If you are curious, you should have the courage to ask questions. I also offer non-binding meetings over coffee to build trust.

What would have to change in society?

Interviewer: How could more acceptance be achieved?
Sexuality should be free of shame – even for women. More knowledge and fewer taboos would help to get the profession of the gigolo out of the gray area.

Do you experience emotional farewells?

Interviewer: How do customers react after the meeting?
Some are moved or thoughtful. A beautiful impression often remains – a memory that accompanies them. If it fits, I sometimes stay longer.

Are there any difficult aspects of your job?

Interviewer: What are the challenges?
A lasting partnership is difficult to manage. Openness in the private sphere requires a lot of trust. And you have to be good at setting yourself apart.

How has the profession changed you?

Interviewer: What have you personally learned?
I understood that many women are looking for honesty and security above all. It’s not about performance, but about real feeling and appreciation.