Gigolo interview from the Ruhrnachrichten with Kevin from Dortmund
In the gigolo interview from the Ruhrnachrichten, Kevin says: "Some people's imagination is already running wild"
Visits to the swinger club serve primarily to satisfy one's own sexual desire. Normally. But if things go like Kevin's, things can also develop quite differently. The 41-year-old works part-time as a gigolo.
A well-paid, unusual job – which began in a swingers' club. "I used to go to swinger clubs a lot. And the ladies often told me that I could adapt well and quickly to them - and could certainly work well in this area," says Kevin, who offers his services from the Dortmund location, but is booked throughout Germany and also in nearby countries.
Three years ago, he decided to simply apply to some providers, corresponding online platforms. With success. If you enter the terms "gigolo Dortmund" in search engines today, you will quickly come across your profile on callboyz.net.
A meeting with or without sex?
And then he first has to make the decision for what he – or rather she – wants to book the 1.78-metre-tall, well-trained man for: "Social time" or "Sweet time". The former is about "any kind of accompaniment – at parties, weddings or just for a dinner that you don't want to spend alone". But there are also rather unusual requests - for example, Kevin once played the partner of a woman who was looking for a new apartment in Dortmund during an apartment viewing.
However, most of his customers book the "sweet time" – about 80 percent, Kevin estimates. What is it all about? "Any kind of sex," he sums it up compactly. In particular, women who actually live in a relationship have very specific wishes.
"Sex practices that are not lived out."
"It's often about sex practices that are not lived out in the relationship. Where the ladies have their ideas and dreams, and want to implement them." These could be, for example, practices from the BDSM sector, and "very hard sex" is sometimes desired.
When Kevin goes to a hotel or someone's home for a date, he has a black suitcase with him: In addition to hygiene products to freshen up
, "I have a few utensils with me – dildos, sex toys, restraints, a whip. These toys are not always used, but it is always better to have them with you," he says.
When gigolo Kevin sets off on a sex date, he has a discreet black suitcase with him – all kinds of sex toys are stowed here. When couples book it, it is often a matter of implementing fantasies in a role-playing game for three people. The couple is sitting at a hotel bar and the gigolo joins in as a big unknown, the 41-year-old gives an example. If the suggestions that are expressed and discussed in advance become too far, the gigolo simply refuses
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The gigolo rejects extreme wishes
"Some people, especially men, have their imagination run wild." He does not want to go into too much detail in order to protect the privacy of interested parties. But he does give an example: There was a man's wish that the gigolo take his wife to a hotel room and put her under pressure there – a dummy weapon was also to be used.
The gigolo was not supposed to get the opportunity to discuss with the woman in advance whether this extreme role play also met
her wishes – and therefore refused to play along. A date often picks up speed much more slowly when the customer is single, Kevin describes his experiences: "Single women express their wishes less. They are more likely to let it come to them. Many did not allow closeness for a long time, had to wrestle with themselves for a long time before they made contact."
Often these sex dates don't revolve around special wishes about sex practices and the like – something else is much more important to women, says Kevin: "Closeness, appreciation, the feeling that needs are taken care of."
"Often the women fall by the wayside."
Whether in one-night stands or in relationships: "Often the women fall by the wayside, the men are done quite quickly. This talk along the lines of
'I can go on for hours' – unfortunately, that's often not the case. Many women want to be pampered intensively for a longer period of time," says Kevin. "How can I respond to my partner, what might she like, many people don't think about that. It's different with me, I put my needs on the back burner, make sure that I'm not finished faster than the lady." For him, it doesn't matter at all whether he finds the customer attractive when making a booking. Because it is a job – which is not about one's own pleasure, but about the satisfaction of the woman.
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